Yeah, I know, you’re making faces just thinking about this, aren’t you? Before I start, let me just warn you that there will be a lot of talk about periods, cervixes and blood in this blog post so if you’re a man you probably do not want to continue reading. But if you’re a woman who hasn’t gone through menopause then periods are part of your life. We need to talk about menstrual cups which are another option at your disposal in your monthly arsenal. These are a lot more popular in Europe. Don’t know why. They’re better for the environment? Save space? Who knows. But most companies and websites that deal with this item are Eurpoean.
Let’s talk about what a menstrual cup even is. It’s a silicone cup with a little thing coming out of the bottom to grab onto. You put it way up inside next to your cervix where it catches all the blood and gook coming out until you dump it out and reinsert it. There are probably more than a dozen options out there but most of them look something like this:
Economical. You’ll pay between $20-$40 for one but it will last you for years. Considering a box of tampons costs between $6-10, do the math.
Convenient. No more forgetting a tampon. The cup stays inside and just has to be emptied and reinserted. Your days of having to beg a stranger for a tampon are OVER. Although I do keep a tampon in my purse in case my first period of my cycle starts while I’m not at home.
Environmentally sound. Think of all the tampons and pads that are used around the world. No, don’t think about that. What a disgusting mess. But you can imagine the impact of throwing that much stuff away. Not to mention all the wrappers and applicators.
Capacity. A cup holds a lot more than a tampon. You spend a lot less time in the bathroom since cups have a higher capacity, especially during the lighter days of your period.
Healthy. Cups are made of medical grade silicone. Which means no risk of toxic shock. Silicone is also resistant to bacteria. Just ask all your friends with fake boobs!
Apocolyptically sound. When the world ends you won’t have to use rags during your period or barter for tampons. I know you were worried about that!
Messy. Not as messy as you’d imagine but your fingers will come in contact with blood. That can be an issue in public bathrooms. But there’s toilet paper in there for a reason.
Initial Cost. Since everyone’s body is different it could take you a few tries to find the right cup for you. And it’s not like you can sell your used cups on ebay. But once you find the right cup it will be great!
Insertion. This is the tricky part. You have to fold it up to get it inside, make sure it pops open and forms a seal.
I’d heard of menstrual cups over the years but thought, “gross” and dismissed the idea because . . . what a yucky mess! But I talked to my friend Tamara a few months ago. Tamara is even more nutty about preparedness and general End-of-the-World stuff than I am. And the talk turned to having babies and periods, as conversasation naturally does when women are together for more than an hour. She reminded me how awful it’s going to be when society as we know it breaks down and the supply of tampons runs out; and that menstrual cups are really the way to go. [Lightbulb moment!]
So I hopped onto the interwebs to do a little research. One visit to Amazon persuaded me that there must be something good about these things because there are RAVES about menstrual cups. I started by checking out the Divacup, a name I’d actually heard of. These seemed pretty good but I ended up going with the Mooncup because it was pretty cheap (about $20) and had great reviews. So I ordered one and tried it out a couple of weeks later when Aunt Flo came to visit.
There is definitely a learning curve to menstrual cups. Oh my gosh, what a mess the first time! Just think about when you first got your period and you totally didn’t know how it all worked and what a disaster that was. It’s kind of like that during your first period with a cup. But a few comments on Amazon had warned about that and so I stuck with it. The next period went a lot better. Now I’ve used my cup for about six periods and I’m a total convert.
After I used my Mooncup for my first cycle I realized that I needed something a lot more heavy duty. Not only do I have super heavy periods (I go through a Super Plus tampon every hour and a half on days 2-3) but my cervix and surrounding areas are a little roomy thanks to all the children I pushed out. The Mooncup actually slid down each time I used it. Super!
There are different sizes of cups (each manufacturer makes one size if you’ve given birth vaginally, one if you haven’t) and different capacities. Some brands are firmer silicone (they’re better to stay in place) and some are softer (better if youv’e got an oddly-shaped cervical area). Some are shorter and some are longer. Did you know that some women have a high cervix and some have a low cervix? And to make it even more confusing your cervix keeps moving throughout your cycle? Your menstrual cup choices are pretty wide. The only way to know which cup works for you is to try them. Which can get a little spendy. But the right cup makes all the difference!
There is an incredibly helpful blog here that shows all the menstrual cup measurements, rates their softness, their capacity, etc. The comments are all very educational so make sure to read those if you’re interested in trying out a menstrual cup. The one with the widest diameter and the most capacity was the Yuuki. So I ordered one from the only website in the world that seems to carry them (some place in the Czech Republic, I think). I had it within two weeks and it has worked great for me.
Here are the FAQ’s I get asked most often when I mention menstrual cups:
Q: Aren’t they messy?
A: At the beginning, yes. You definitely need to get the hang of it. But once you know what you’re doing it’s not so bad. Yes, you are essentially putting something up inside and your fingers will come in contact with blood. This really is only an issue if you use public bathrooms without sinks nearby. Must cups hold way more liquid than a tampon so the need to change them is a lot less. If I’m going out to dinner and a movie and I know I’ll have to empty my cup I try to find a family or handicap bathroom where a sink is nearby. If not just use toilet paper as much as possible until you can make it to the sink.
When you’re removing your cup just use your vaginal wall muscles to push the cup down to the opening. Then use toilet paper to grab it, break the seal and dump it out.
Q: Do they leak?
A: They will if they get too full. I usually wear a pad during my heavy days just in case. But then, my periods are always crazy heavy. I can go about three hours between empty times for my cup. About 1.5 hours for a tampon. And my tampons ALWAYS leaked, as opposed to every once in a while with my cup. The best part of a cup is when your period isn’t very heavy or you have those weird days at the end of your period where your body can’t decide if it’s finished or not. You can leave your cup in all day and there is no health risk. You can’t get toxic shock from menstrual cups. Just empty it once in the morning and once in the evening and never think about it again. So awesome! If your period is never very heavy I can’t imagine how dreamy it would be to use a cup!
Q: Are they uncomfortable?
A: Nope. The first day I wore one I could feel something there. No pain, just a sense that there was something inside me. But after the first day it disappeared and has never happened since.
Q. How do you put it in exactly?
A: It has to be folded to get inside. Lucky for you there are all sorts of different folding videos on YouTube. MenstrualCupInfo has posted a whole bunch of helpful videos about insertion and removal. (I prefer the punch down fold myself.) Just fold, insert, make sure it pops open, twist it back and forth to make sure it has a decent seal and you’re done. It’s usually easier to put it in when it’s wet. You might want to try doing it in the shower. I get a better seal when I insert it standing up.
To remove it, squeeze your muscles til the cup is down close to your vaginal opening, grab the base (I use toilet paper) and pinch the sides together. It will come right out and you just dump the blood in the toilet. I like to rinse mine too but that’s not always a possibility. So I just reinsert if I can’t rinse it.
I hope this has given you something to think about. If you’ve tried menstrual cups I’d love to hear your opinion!
20 thoughts on “My Review: Menstrual Cups”
I never thought I’d think the thought
“Thank the good Lord for menopause!”
But now I’m thinking it.
I have the Diva cup. I have super heavy periods too and now I can leave the house with out dreading it. I have only used the Diva cup so I don’t have anything to compare it with. It leaks, but then I seem to fill it quickly, so that may be a the problem, or I just need to try a different brand.
For the out and about trips, I carry a squeeze bottle that they gave me after one of my kids was born. I fill it with warm water and rinse the cup and my fingers while in the stall. I take paper toweling in with me to dry my hands. Put the the towels in the receptacle for used pads and such. It’s so much less of a hassle than having my clothes stained or not having more pads or tampons in my bag. I do carry the squeeze/spray bottle in a ziplock baggie, just to help keep everything sanitary.
Oh, I really like the Diva Wash to keep the cup all nice a clean.
I use the diva cup. These things may rate as the best invention ever. And, bonus, it’s fun to watch the fellow Mormons gross out when I tout the diva cup as food storage/emergency preparedness. Needing to never to buy tampons again? Wonderful.
You are always so educational, Miss Jenny. I had never even HEARD of a menstrual cup, so that is how out of it (and non-European, apparently) I am! 😉
I’ve never even heard of menstrual cups, very enlightening.
I’ve used something called “INSTEAD” for YEARS, which is a disposable version. Which I LOVE!!! I didn’t know that there was a reusable option. Another selling point is, “intimacy” during your period no longer makes the husband gag.
OhhhhKaaaaaaay! Yes, this is a gross topic, but I can see the need to get into this as part of emergency preparedness. I never even THOUGHT of that point! Thought I HAVE thought of how horrid it must have been in pre-disposable-pad days, let alone pre-tampon days. Yes, rags! and yes, you had to wash them out yourself! Ewwwww! And eventually the world could come to that again!
I must say that having my plumbing removed during my early 50s was one of the happiest events of my life. No man can possibly imagine the horrendous inconvenience (and pain!) of that part of a woman’s life! Too bad I didn’t know your solution earlier. But how inestimably wonderful I NEVER need to think of it again!
you are awesome. And I can’t believe you bleed that much. I am on the lucky side and my periods last for two days and I use only two tampons a day–and sometimes those aren’t even full (ouch!) I am totally going to try this. good post
Would you recommend these for a teenage girl?
If she’s totally comfortable with tampons, possibly. I tried to get my daughter to use one and she almost passed out at the very thought. It requires you to be a little more in touch with your lady plumbing than teenage girls might be comfortable with.
This is so funny, because I was just researching a starter kit for my girls and how to hold the conversation and when to. Granted my girls are only 5 and 6, it kind of hit me that I need to have the convo sooner rather than later when after practice she was pretty musty. The doctor said that’s normal and to worry when you start seeing hair, for me that isn’t normal and so I want to be prepared and ready and I want my daughters prepared and ready when it does happen. Anyways most of the starter kits I found used eco friendly reusable pads, eco friendly tampons and some of the sites talked about the cup.
I thought it was pretty weird but can see why someone would use it, and I considered it for about a split second. And then remembered how much I dislike with a passion getting even a small speck of blood on me during the change process, so I didn’t consider it any more…
This post now has me reconsidering it, maybe. At least I will do some more research on it before I say no at all…
Just had this discussion with my husband last week about being prepared for myself and our 3 daughters. When I mentioned this item last night to him, he said, “Whoa! That’s all you! You do what you gotta do!” I am going to stock up on these to have enough for myself and 3 daughters, plus a few others to spare! Thanks for the tip.
Good luck talking your daughters into it. Mine freaked! She’ll change her tune after dealing with tampons for years, though!
What’s your recommendation for a very low cervix? I couldn’t even use the ruva ring because we could both feel it. I swear my cervix is 1 inch up!
so, your friend Tamara is also MY friend, but we have never had this discussion! (i don’t think she was using it back when I was living in Austin and we were in the same ward.) my concern is during workouts. i would think that all the bouncing around would make everything slosh around in there, which is probably not good, right? what do you think? did Tamara say anything about that?
I’ve heard that active athletic people like cups a lot better than tampons. Read some of the reviews on amazon of the different brands; women mention liking them a lot for use during sports.
And I don’t think Tamara has tried them. They’re just on her list of preparedness supplies.
Meredith – friend of Tamara is my sister in law. Small world.
Paiger, I think you need to get Meredith a menstrual cup for Christmas.
Love your breakdown on this. I am going over to buy one tonight. **Mer, I will let you know how it goes 🙂 **
BTW, I totally object to the adjective nutty…